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Age 37, Male
economics student
University
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Joined on 2/3/06
Posted by Kenzu - September 23rd, 2009
I have married in August, and everyone kept asking us, how it changed our life.
All I can say is that everything is EXACTLY THE SAME as before the marriage. In other words, awesome!
What do you think about this?
When are you planning to marry?
Are you planning to marry at all?
Congratulations my man. I'm glad to hear it!
Buut you might want to ammend your post. When I go to the club... I don't fail... lol
And conversely. Not wishing anything upon you, or saying that it's going to happen to you. But the failing marriage rate is extremely high as well.
Just throwing in the other side of the argument.
I like that one very much!
Good idea!
Divorce rate is 50% in this country, but we are 99.99% compatible
I don't plan on getting married, and I'll probably die alone, but I can live with that.
also, congratulations!
Thank you very much!
If you look for love, you will find it one day!
Reasons to marry at 22 according to Kenzu:
-Everything is EXACTLY THE SAME as before the marriage
- When you were in a club with your girlfriend, and someone was hitting on her, it was impossible to go and say ' Fuck off, she is my girlfriend' because it didn't have a nice sound to it. But when you marry her, you can say ' Fuck off, she is my wife' which sounds way more awesome.
- After enough experience, which you accumulated from the age of 15 that you started getting interested in girls until 22, you have probably had 90 relationships and are now wise enough to pick the best.
-When a girl finds 2 guys that look the same and behave the same, as it usually happens when girls pick up guys in clone factories, she will choose the younger one. So if you are 22 now and your clone is 17, he has way more chances than you (Unless she wants to marry her daddy)
-You have sex every single day when you are married, since before marriage it is forbidden I am guessing. And probably the proof is everyones parents that just won't stop fucking.
-Settle for what you can get now, before it's too late. Who wants to waste the few years of life left after 22 looking for other options.
-Furthermore there are much more advantages to having a wife than just sex. Unless you are like 22 and you have a life to worry about. And I can't think of anything more I would like than sex at 22.
Mostly yes, but:
"You have sex every single day when you are married, since before marriage it is forbidden I am guessing. And probably the proof is everyones parents that just won't stop fucking."
=> you can, but if you have a girlfriend who you want to stay with forever, you should marry her one day anyway.
=> if you enjoy single life, you have much less sex than with a girlfriend/wife, and most likely it will be worse, since she will not know what you like.
and I would add:
the reason is that you dont need to worry about looking for someone anymore.
You can finally enjoy the life.
PS: are you being sarcastic?
HS IS RETURNED FROM CHINA AND VERY MARRIED! CONGRATULATIONS FROM AMERICA!!!
Thank you Johnny!
She's really cute man, congrats.
But I hate to think how this will impact Aderan wars...
Thank you, but dont worry, we got more people working on Aderan Wars.
Well, you're saing all truth :]( Lots of people in clubs are like that but not all of them for sure :P ) My girlfriend whant's to married me just after she will be 18, I will be 20 then and I saied to her- Nooo way my sweet facy! Why? Well first of all I know I won't have job far then and my studies are really expensive...I love her and I know I'll be with her to the end but in first we have to make good conditions for ourselves :P Sorry for lame english by the way, but from that all languiches yo know there is no Polish xP :] Peace to you guyz :D
I could understand Polish, afterall I speak Slovak. Didn't know you have to pay for studies in Poland.
I wish good luck to both of you.
I am utterly and thoroughly happy fra ye twa!
Crivens! Tis guid tae see a man who's git the balls tae marry 'n stand fra it!
Aber mal im Ernst, du bist Österreicher ja? Ich finds super. EIne Ehe ist eine unglaubliche Stabilität im Leben. Und viele von denen, die ihr Leben lang doch lieber Single bleiben stellen dann im Alter fest, dass sie einsam und verlasen sind, weil sie keine Kinder und Enkelkinder haben. Wohin mit deinem ganzen Erfolg, wohin mit deinem Geld, deinen Erfahrungen? Du bist alt und hast keine Kinder, denen du es geben könntest. Und glaubst du irgendwer interessiert sich für dich, wenn du dein ganzes Leben nur One-Night-Stands hattest? Nur Affären, nie etwas festes?
Was Scheidungen angeht, meistens kommt es zu Scheidungen, weil man vergisst mit dem Partner zu reden. ALso red mit deiner Hübschen! Das ist ein Befehl ;)
Es gibt tolle Soiele, die man zusammen machen kann, sollte man einmal nicht wissen, worüber man reden soll. (Schreib mir ne PM wenn du mehr wissen willst).
Ich selbst bin 24 und stehe am Anfang einer ernsten Beziehung, die - hoffentlich - auch im Hafen der Ehe einlaufen wird.
Was Sex angeht: Die LEute, die sagen, man braucht Erfahrung um seinen Partner im Bett glücklich zu machen haben nie gründlich darüber nachgedacht, dass man vielleicht auch mit seinem Partner darüber reden kann, was er/sie will? Es gibt so viele Möglichkeiten glücklich zu werden, aber die LEute laufen an ihnen vorbei, weil sie nur auf sich fixiert sind, ohne auf die Gefühle und Wünsche des anderen zu achten. Genauso aber ist totale Selbstaufgabe in einer Bezoiehung tödlich. Denn wer will mit jemanden zusammen sein, der einem alles nachmacht.
Naja ich wünsche euch alles Gute und Gottes Segen für euer gemeinsames Leben, gesunde Kinder und nie zu wenig Geld um ihnen das zu geben was sie brauchen.
MOELANDER out
Danke sehr!
Ich denke genau wie du denkst, es mag alles schoen und super sein, immer sich mit anderen Maedchen treffen, aber dann ist man ploetzlich 50 und es wird bergab gehen, und auch wenn man mit 40 heiratet und kinder hat, wenn die 20 Jahre alt sind und auf Abenteuer gehen wollen ist man schon 60 und kann sich ihnen nicht mehr gut widmen.
Man muss die Liebe immer hegen, deshalb gehe ich oft mir einer Geliebten fort. Es gibt immer etwas romantisches, was man machen kann. Zum Beispiel ein Candle Light Dinner von Zeit zu Zeit
Mit Erfahrung meinte ich Erfahrung, was fuer einen Charakter die auserwaehlte haben soll. Damit habe ich sicherlich nicht gemeint, dass man mit vielen geschlafen hat.
Du hast eine gute Einstellung, ich finde es wird mit in deiner Beziehung immer gut klappen!
You mean you can be married and STILL have sex!?...
OMG OMG OMG, how did you know that?
Are you a wizzard?
Your my new hero!
Why is that?
Congrats man on the marriage! I wish I could be equally lucky. Then again I'm just 18 XD. Best of luck for you and your wife.
Thank you!
Most married women turn bitchy and miserable after the first year glow. Im just sayin congrats and allll but enjoy the sex while its there, im sure shes gonna get sick of it soonnn.
I also dont yet like the concept of sharing... like i work hard for my money i dont want to share that or have to answer to why i spend it on the things i do with a wife just yet. Atleast with a girlfriend you still have free reign on your expenses.
People who marry better have sex as much as the "more active partner" wants, otherwise they run the risk of becomming divorced or cheated on.
That's why we always try hard to make each other happy.
Congratulations on the wedding. Me, I hope to get married someday, have some kids, but... Well, I'm not exactly a superhuman chick magnet, ya know? Plus, there's no marginally attractive-looking girls I know with whom I'd be willing to spend much more than an hour, much less my entire life, and it's embarrassing enough to wake up one morning with something that resembles a whale-dragon hybrid, so I'd never be willing to do it for my entire life (or even once). Anyway, I wish you and your wife the best future possible.
It doesnt happen often that the father keeps the children. You must be a very good father.
Hope you will find the special someone one day.
you have a weird look on marriage, you make it seem like a technical process
you can have love without marriage, it's not something you need to prove it
marriage seems useless to many people, but still even more people marry, don't they?
Marrying is a good opportunity to make a party so big,
no one has ever seen such an awesome party!
99.99% compatible. Sounds like a winner to me my friend. I wish you all the happiness in the world.
Thank you very much!
I wish you as much hapiness as well!
Congrats, and no, I won't marry. Not in this world.
Why not?
Congratulations! I want to be married with my girlfriend before 25, too!
Good luck then!
It's funny how you start to sermon other people as though you were superior because you just got married. 1/2 couple gets divorced today. And you probably wont' escape that. You will probably have a lot of sex for the first year. Then it will be the routine.
Before thinking your marriage is worth better than all those people in the clubs, think about what's best : getting married and getting divorced after a few years in tears and money loss, or just having one night adventures and be happy.
I wouldn't be happy with one night adventures.
I cannot be happy with something I don't see a future with.
Divorce is a horrible thing, but then again, even if that happened, I cannot say that I have not tried to succeed. If you marry there is a risk you will get divorced, and the risk is quite high, but then again, if you never marry, the risk that you will not be married is 100%
Wow i read the whole thing and learned absolutely nothing cause i am already married :P
Who knew the chances of my friendship with her for like 20 years to end up like this? LOL I can see you got a pretty good wife over there. Don't have to say Fuck off shes my wife I already have one!
Congratualtions to you!
You gonna start makin babies anytime soon :D?
Not so soon.
First we have to graduate our universities.
Loki
Congrats! But I sure don't plan on ever marrying :)
Kenzu
Why not?