and im totally not gay
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Kenzu Milagro
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ok...
hehe i just thought i put out the wrong vibe. Didnt want you to get all excited and leave that lovely lady for me. ;)
LOL
I must point out flaws in your reasons to getting married love. Especially considering the amount of arrogance you show to us 'improper people'.
You've stated yourself, everything stayed exactly the same. Why get married then? For ownership of your wife? It's the only valid reason I've seen you post. 'Fuck off, she's my wife'. The only benefits of marriage are and always will be psychological. Look back to when marriage entered the records, it was high ranking men inserting their dominance on the women they wanted to own. This is clearly the case with you.
Calling people 'proper people' for wanting marriage is unfair and uncalled for. I have friends who have been together since 14, and still together at 23. Why are they improper? Because they have a logical reason for not wanting to wed at a young age? They still love and care for each other, they have for 9 years which I'm betting is longer than you and your wife have. They don't need a record stating they -should- be together forever.
And last of all, the 99.99 compatibility statement.. Bullshit my friend. All couples think that when it's going good. Your 20s are meant to be the time you have fun, start a career, explore the world. In the grand scheme of things, the average person lives till 80. The reasonable age to settle down is 30 - 40. I mean sure, if it's right for you to do it at 22, great. But you have no right telling people that you -have- to do it and justifying that with pitiful and stupid reasons.
I would honestly place a bet saying you're going through a divorce at 25. This isn't meant to be cynical or anything, but you reek of immaturity and lack the wisdom and experience for a healthy relationship, and apparently base it round sex.. Yeah, wonderful basis for a marriage.
I am not saying what people should or should not do.
What I said was that I think people should marry before they become 30 years old and after they mature.
Not being married isn't a requirement to start a career.
I can explore the world together with my wife.
But what do you mean by exploring the world?
Do you mean traveling to different places, or do you mean to explore one self and find out what one truly wants?
Most of my relatives married before 25, I dont see a reason why people, who love each other and lived together don't dare to make the step of what is marriage.
If they want to stay together forever, why not marry?
Is it only the scare that they will divorce, or is there something else too?
<b>What do you think about this?</b>
First of all Congrat's and good luck. Secondly, I hear the sounds of trumpets, and war drums as I read all of this, picturing you head banging to some sci-fi heavy metal. Your wife is beautiful, and u are a lucky bastard! No but really... good luck to the both of you
<b>When are you planning to marry?</b>
Maybe another 6-8 years: When I can afford to be married and have a found a girl that I love and she loves me...
<b>Are you planning to marry at all?</b>
Yes
Good to see that more people want to marry.
"It doesnt happen often that the father keeps the children. You must be a very good father."
My meaning must have been lost somewhere on the cultural boundary, I mean that I HOPE to have kids someday, not that I HAVE any. Maybe the poor grammar that I used is just an American thing, not used in the dialect taught in Europe.
Anyway, I'm pretty sure there's something I have to do before I find her. Now if I could just figure out what that something is!
Oh sorry. Seems I have misunderstood.
Obviously it would make no sense to marry someone you aren't completely happy with, afterall even if you like that person at the beginning, you won't like her that much after some years.
Therefore if you ever plan on marrying, you should marry someone you are very happy with, so that after years, when the routine kicks you will still be happy with hear, maybe not perfectly happy, but still quite happy.
Liek all marriages this will fall apart soon. Inevitably.
Anyways on the part where it's better sex with your wife. I'd say it'd get boring you'd start looking for 19 year old prostititues.
Not all mariages fall apart. From my and her relatives, not a single marriage fell apart.
If sex would ever get boring, why looking for prostitutes?
Afterall they offer nothing except sex!
"Furthermore there are much more advantages to having a wife than just sex."
LIKE WAT?
"Liek all marriages this will fall apart soon. Inevitably."
LIKE HOW?
In summery not a warning upon what was to come and yet more of your inevitable marriage.
erick-jauregui
your wife is beautiful.congrats.You have my wishes and good luck on what ever comes at you too in the future.
Think positive.
Kenzu
I definitely will!