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I have married! (Read about clubs and sex)

Posted by Kenzu Sep. 23, 2009 @ 7:49 AM EDT

I have married in August, and everyone kept asking us, how it changed our life.

All I can say is that everything is EXACTLY THE SAME as before the marriage. In other words, awesome!

One thing has changed though, whenever we go out on a date in a club, and I see a guy trying to flirt with my girl, I can finally say: Fuck off, she's my wife!

I have realised long time ago that 90% of the guys, who are in a club are trying to find a girl to have sex with, and girls, well 90% of them are typical bitches who try to be as sexy as possible to attract a potential boyfriend. Seems they are unaware that a one night stand is what most guys look for. Tipsy guys hitting on tipsy girls. That cannot end well.

I feel sad for these people, both guys and girls, they keep looking and most of the times they fail. That's the reason why I never went to a club without my girlfriend. (unless meeting friends in a bar to chat)

Many guys hit on girls and fail many times, I go there with my wife and NEVER FAIL.

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Some friends are wondering if it was a good idea to marry at the age of 22. Wasn't it too early? In any case it wasn't, because if you gained enough experience, you should find the best one, and marry her. If you always keep looking for a better one, you will never marry. The longer you wait the lower the chances that you find a girl who is as good as the one you had.

Imagine this, there is a girl who can decide what guy she wants, there are two guys, one is 25 and one is 45, if they look same, behave same, she would definitely choose the one who is 25. The only way how the 45 year old one can win her over is that he would have to be much better than the 25 year old guy (for example be much richer than him), because in most cases being old is a disadvantage (unless she likes to marry her daddy).

The best girls, which are out there will marry the best guys, and all other people are leftovers, not that good. Of course it can happen that some of them divorce (especially if they married to early, and didn't know what they want in life) and then they would return to the "singles market". But even if some of them do, the odds of finding an awesome wife at later age is steadily falling.

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I think guys should marry in the age 20-30, because at the age 30-40 it will get harder to find a good one, and if you marry 10 years later, you miss out on 3650 days you could have sex.

Of course you might say that you don't marry and simply live with your girlfriend for 10 years, but why would you not want to marry her, if you want to stay with her forever?

And if you prefer single life, then think of this, even if you find many girls to have sex with, and have sex few times per week, it will still be less than what you could achieve if you have a wife.

Furthermore there are much more advantages to having a wife than just sex.

What do you think about this?
When are you planning to marry?
Are you planning to marry at all?

Updated: 09/24/09 8:41 AM Log in to comment! | Share this!

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Sep. 23, 2009 | 8:21 AM FBIpolux says:

Congrats! But I sure don't plan on ever marrying :)

Sep. 23, 2009 | 9:36 AM Kenzu responds:

Why not?

Sep. 23, 2009 | 8:33 AM WompWomp says:

Congratulations my man. I'm glad to hear it!

Buut you might want to ammend your post. When I go to the club... I don't fail... lol

And conversely. Not wishing anything upon you, or saying that it's going to happen to you. But the failing marriage rate is extremely high as well.

Just throwing in the other side of the argument.

Sep. 23, 2009 | 9:37 AM Kenzu responds:

I like that one very much!
Good idea!

Divorce rate is 50% in this country, but we are 99.99% compatible

Sep. 23, 2009 | 8:34 AM Magical-Zorse says:

I don't plan on getting married, and I'll probably die alone, but I can live with that.
also, congratulations!

Sep. 23, 2009 | 9:36 AM Kenzu responds:

Thank you very much!

If you look for love, you will find it one day!

Sep. 23, 2009 | 8:52 AM Valerofond says:

Reasons to marry at 22 according to Kenzu:

-Everything is EXACTLY THE SAME as before the marriage

- When you were in a club with your girlfriend, and someone was hitting on her, it was impossible to go and say ' Fuck off, she is my girlfriend' because it didn't have a nice sound to it. But when you marry her, you can say ' Fuck off, she is my wife' which sounds way more awesome.

- After enough experience, which you accumulated from the age of 15 that you started getting interested in girls until 22, you have probably had 90 relationships and are now wise enough to pick the best.

-When a girl finds 2 guys that look the same and behave the same, as it usually happens when girls pick up guys in clone factories, she will choose the younger one. So if you are 22 now and your clone is 17, he has way more chances than you (Unless she wants to marry her daddy)

-You have sex every single day when you are married, since before marriage it is forbidden I am guessing. And probably the proof is everyones parents that just won't stop fucking.

-Settle for what you can get now, before it's too late. Who wants to waste the few years of life left after 22 looking for other options.

-Furthermore there are much more advantages to having a wife than just sex. Unless you are like 22 and you have a life to worry about. And I can't think of anything more I would like than sex at 22.

Sep. 23, 2009 | 9:49 AM Kenzu responds:

Mostly yes, but:

"You have sex every single day when you are married, since before marriage it is forbidden I am guessing. And probably the proof is everyones parents that just won't stop fucking."
=> you can, but if you have a girlfriend who you want to stay with forever, you should marry her one day anyway.
=> if you enjoy single life, you have much less sex than with a girlfriend/wife, and most likely it will be worse, since she will not know what you like.

and I would add:

the reason is that you dont need to worry about looking for someone anymore.

You can finally enjoy the life.

PS: are you being sarcastic?

Updated: Sep. 23, 2009, 9:55 AM

Sep. 23, 2009 | 8:55 AM JohnnyUtah says:

HS IS RETURNED FROM CHINA AND VERY MARRIED! CONGRATULATIONS FROM AMERICA!!!

Sep. 23, 2009 | 9:41 AM Kenzu responds:

Thank you Johnny!

Sep. 23, 2009 | 8:57 AM HappyHarry says:

She's really cute man, congrats.

But I hate to think how this will impact Aderan wars...

Sep. 23, 2009 | 9:35 AM Kenzu responds:

Thank you, but dont worry, we got more people working on Aderan Wars.

Sep. 23, 2009 | 9:21 AM Laber says:

Well, you're saing all truth :]( Lots of people in clubs are like that but not all of them for sure :P ) My girlfriend whant's to married me just after she will be 18, I will be 20 then and I saied to her- Nooo way my sweet facy! Why? Well first of all I know I won't have job far then and my studies are really expensive...I love her and I know I'll be with her to the end but in first we have to make good conditions for ourselves :P Sorry for lame english by the way, but from that all languiches yo know there is no Polish xP :] Peace to you guyz :D

Sep. 23, 2009 | 9:39 AM Kenzu responds:

I could understand Polish, afterall I speak Slovak. Didn't know you have to pay for studies in Poland.

I wish good luck to both of you.

Sep. 23, 2009 | 9:32 AM MOELANDER says:

I am utterly and thoroughly happy fra ye twa!
Crivens! Tis guid tae see a man who's git the balls tae marry 'n stand fra it!

Aber mal im Ernst, du bist Österreicher ja? Ich finds super. EIne Ehe ist eine unglaubliche Stabilität im Leben. Und viele von denen, die ihr Leben lang doch lieber Single bleiben stellen dann im Alter fest, dass sie einsam und verlasen sind, weil sie keine Kinder und Enkelkinder haben. Wohin mit deinem ganzen Erfolg, wohin mit deinem Geld, deinen Erfahrungen? Du bist alt und hast keine Kinder, denen du es geben könntest. Und glaubst du irgendwer interessiert sich für dich, wenn du dein ganzes Leben nur One-Night-Stands hattest? Nur Affären, nie etwas festes?

Was Scheidungen angeht, meistens kommt es zu Scheidungen, weil man vergisst mit dem Partner zu reden. ALso red mit deiner Hübschen! Das ist ein Befehl ;)
Es gibt tolle Soiele, die man zusammen machen kann, sollte man einmal nicht wissen, worüber man reden soll. (Schreib mir ne PM wenn du mehr wissen willst).

Ich selbst bin 24 und stehe am Anfang einer ernsten Beziehung, die - hoffentlich - auch im Hafen der Ehe einlaufen wird.

Was Sex angeht: Die LEute, die sagen, man braucht Erfahrung um seinen Partner im Bett glücklich zu machen haben nie gründlich darüber nachgedacht, dass man vielleicht auch mit seinem Partner darüber reden kann, was er/sie will? Es gibt so viele Möglichkeiten glücklich zu werden, aber die LEute laufen an ihnen vorbei, weil sie nur auf sich fixiert sind, ohne auf die Gefühle und Wünsche des anderen zu achten. Genauso aber ist totale Selbstaufgabe in einer Bezoiehung tödlich. Denn wer will mit jemanden zusammen sein, der einem alles nachmacht.

Naja ich wünsche euch alles Gute und Gottes Segen für euer gemeinsames Leben, gesunde Kinder und nie zu wenig Geld um ihnen das zu geben was sie brauchen.

MOELANDER out

Sep. 23, 2009 | 9:48 AM Kenzu responds:

Danke sehr!

Ich denke genau wie du denkst, es mag alles schoen und super sein, immer sich mit anderen Maedchen treffen, aber dann ist man ploetzlich 50 und es wird bergab gehen, und auch wenn man mit 40 heiratet und kinder hat, wenn die 20 Jahre alt sind und auf Abenteuer gehen wollen ist man schon 60 und kann sich ihnen nicht mehr gut widmen.

Man muss die Liebe immer hegen, deshalb gehe ich oft mir einer Geliebten fort. Es gibt immer etwas romantisches, was man machen kann. Zum Beispiel ein Candle Light Dinner von Zeit zu Zeit

Mit Erfahrung meinte ich Erfahrung, was fuer einen Charakter die auserwaehlte haben soll. Damit habe ich sicherlich nicht gemeint, dass man mit vielen geschlafen hat.

Du hast eine gute Einstellung, ich finde es wird mit in deiner Beziehung immer gut klappen!

Sep. 23, 2009 | 9:34 AM RubberNinja says:

You mean you can be married and STILL have sex!?...

Sep. 23, 2009 | 10:02 AM Kenzu responds:

OMG OMG OMG, how did you know that?
Are you a wizzard?

Sep. 23, 2009 | 10:10 AM ThatsMrLazy says:

Your my new hero!

Sep. 23, 2009 | 10:41 AM Kenzu responds:

Why is that?

Sep. 23, 2009 | 10:29 AM Moogleking says:

Congrats man on the marriage! I wish I could be equally lucky. Then again I'm just 18 XD. Best of luck for you and your wife.

Sep. 24, 2009 | 8:29 AM Kenzu responds:

Thank you!

Updated: Sep. 24, 2009, 8:42 AM

Sep. 23, 2009 | 10:37 AM Luis says:

Most married women turn bitchy and miserable after the first year glow. Im just sayin congrats and allll but enjoy the sex while its there, im sure shes gonna get sick of it soonnn.

I also dont yet like the concept of sharing... like i work hard for my money i dont want to share that or have to answer to why i spend it on the things i do with a wife just yet. Atleast with a girlfriend you still have free reign on your expenses.

Sep. 23, 2009 | 7:26 PM Kenzu responds:

People who marry better have sex as much as the "more active partner" wants, otherwise they run the risk of becomming divorced or cheated on.

That's why we always try hard to make each other happy.

Sep. 23, 2009 | 10:42 AM SoulMaster71 says:

Congratulations on the wedding. Me, I hope to get married someday, have some kids, but... Well, I'm not exactly a superhuman chick magnet, ya know? Plus, there's no marginally attractive-looking girls I know with whom I'd be willing to spend much more than an hour, much less my entire life, and it's embarrassing enough to wake up one morning with something that resembles a whale-dragon hybrid, so I'd never be willing to do it for my entire life (or even once). Anyway, I wish you and your wife the best future possible.

Sep. 24, 2009 | 8:31 AM Kenzu responds:

It doesnt happen often that the father keeps the children. You must be a very good father.

Hope you will find the special someone one day.

Sep. 23, 2009 | 10:42 AM nathanielmilburn says:

you have a weird look on marriage, you make it seem like a technical process

you can have love without marriage, it's not something you need to prove it

Sep. 23, 2009 | 7:23 PM Kenzu responds:

marriage seems useless to many people, but still even more people marry, don't they?

Marrying is a good opportunity to make a party so big,
no one has ever seen such an awesome party!

Sep. 23, 2009 | 11:01 AM WompWomp says:

99.99% compatible. Sounds like a winner to me my friend. I wish you all the happiness in the world.

Sep. 23, 2009 | 7:02 PM Kenzu responds:

Thank you very much!

I wish you as much hapiness as well!

Sep. 23, 2009 | 11:29 AM skarai says:

Congrats, and no, I won't marry. Not in this world.

Sep. 24, 2009 | 8:35 AM Kenzu responds:

Why not?

Sep. 23, 2009 | 11:53 AM Killah9516 says:

Congratulations! I want to be married with my girlfriend before 25, too!

Sep. 24, 2009 | 8:35 AM Kenzu responds:

Good luck then!

Sep. 23, 2009 | 11:54 AM Sausau says:

It's funny how you start to sermon other people as though you were superior because you just got married. 1/2 couple gets divorced today. And you probably wont' escape that. You will probably have a lot of sex for the first year. Then it will be the routine.

Before thinking your marriage is worth better than all those people in the clubs, think about what's best : getting married and getting divorced after a few years in tears and money loss, or just having one night adventures and be happy.

Sep. 24, 2009 | 8:38 AM Kenzu responds:

I wouldn't be happy with one night adventures.

I cannot be happy with something I don't see a future with.

Divorce is a horrible thing, but then again, even if that happened, I cannot say that I have not tried to succeed. If you marry there is a risk you will get divorced, and the risk is quite high, but then again, if you never marry, the risk that you will not be married is 100%

Sep. 23, 2009 | 11:57 AM sharkwiz says:

Wow i read the whole thing and learned absolutely nothing cause i am already married :P
Who knew the chances of my friendship with her for like 20 years to end up like this? LOL I can see you got a pretty good wife over there. Don't have to say Fuck off shes my wife I already have one!

Sep. 24, 2009 | 8:39 AM Kenzu responds:

Congratualtions to you!

Sep. 23, 2009 | 12:22 PM Gonzossm says:

You gonna start makin babies anytime soon :D?

Sep. 23, 2009 | 7:02 PM Kenzu responds:

Not so soon.

First we have to graduate our universities.

Sep. 23, 2009 | 12:37 PM BenTheHobo says:

I don't plan on marrying until I've finished college and have got my feet planted firmly on the ground.
Theres no way I could commit if I still don't know what I want to do with my life

Sep. 24, 2009 | 6:30 AM Kenzu responds:

Before you marry, you should definitely know where you are going in life.

Sep. 23, 2009 | 12:37 PM notahero says:

conglat.
may you have long happy marriage life :)

Sep. 24, 2009 | 6:30 AM Kenzu responds:

Thank you!

Sep. 23, 2009 | 12:56 PM Egoraptor says:

Marriage is like a sementic of life. Some people think of it one way some another. What it should or shouldn't be isn't really important as long as you're happy. Are you happy?

Personally I don't consider marriage to be something that I consider logical or making the most sense, I think of it more as a kind of magical thing, I guess. It's a feeling, an instinct. I know I want it, but not right now.

Sep. 24, 2009 | 6:29 AM Kenzu responds:

Marriage is actually a contract, where people promise each other to stay together forever.

Proper people will make such a step, because if they agree to marry, they are much more certain to stay together than if they don't even have the guts to marry.

The divorce rate might be 50%, but the break up rate for unmarried couples might be up to 80%.

Afterall most people have quite few girlfriends before finding the right one. If they had 4 girlfriends before they found the right one, they have broken up with 4 and stayed only with one (brake up rate 80%).

Sep. 23, 2009 | 1:10 PM TheMillz says:

Common-law marriage is where it's at ( look it up kids ) but I'm happy for ya dude, knowing absolutely nothing about her personally, I'll say she's very hot, quite a nice catch! :)

Sep. 24, 2009 | 6:24 AM Kenzu responds:

Yes, she is.

Sep. 23, 2009 | 1:20 PM PBass says:

I plan on marrying my girlfriend in a year or so. We're sort of engaged to be engaged. We just want to wait until we're financially stable enough to manage a kid(s). But congrats man! Good fortune to you!

Sep. 24, 2009 | 6:24 AM Kenzu responds:

I wish you and your girlfriend good luck!

Sep. 23, 2009 | 1:36 PM DrGiggles says:

Congrats on the marriage

Sep. 23, 2009 | 7:01 PM Kenzu responds:

Thank you!

Sep. 23, 2009 | 1:38 PM Goonie says:

Congrats. I think MATURITY plays a huge issue if anyone plans to get married.

I wish the best of luck.

Sep. 24, 2009 | 6:21 AM Kenzu responds:

I agree completely with that.

Thanks!

Sep. 23, 2009 | 2:09 PM slackerzac says:

Congratulations Comrade Kenzu! May fortune smile apon you and your bride! May your marriage last for many blissful years! And may your children be born happy and healthy!

Sep. 24, 2009 | 6:23 AM Kenzu responds:

Thanks comrade!

Sep. 23, 2009 | 2:46 PM flyingmonkey456 says:

hurry up a have awesome animator kids :)

Sep. 24, 2009 | 6:21 AM Kenzu responds:

the animator kids will have to wait a couple of years.

Sep. 23, 2009 | 3:12 PM Sidorio says:

An NG user? With a wife?

WAT

Sep. 23, 2009 | 7:00 PM Kenzu responds:

Not all NG users are 15 year old teenagers afterall (even though most NG users are)

Sep. 23, 2009 | 3:19 PM HaRiKoINDEX says:

Nothing else to say then:
Congratulations on the marriage, and best of luck to you and your marriage!

Things like this make my days. =)
Damn, I feel really happy now, thanks for happiness-boost, mate! =D

Sep. 24, 2009 | 8:43 AM Kenzu responds:

You are welcome!

Sep. 23, 2009 | 3:30 PM cyberstalin says:

WOOT!!!! congrats man. hope you stay together forever.

Sep. 24, 2009 | 8:42 AM Kenzu responds:

Thank you! I hope that too!

Sep. 23, 2009 | 4:01 PM yos2 says:

why's the wedding dress has a clevage?
you love her for her body or for her personality?

Sep. 24, 2009 | 8:46 AM Kenzu responds:

You should see what she wears in clubs ^_^

I love her for body and personality
(and intelligence)

Sep. 23, 2009 | 4:01 PM steveori says:

Congrats!
I wish you all the best for your future together!

I totally agree with the whole clubbing statement.
Most of my friends go to clubs with the intention of "pulling" and you the see the girls there barely wearing anything, it's a sad state of affairs.
I don't really go clubbing anyway, I am happily taken and see no need to go clubbing as i'm not going to pull.

Again, all the best together, I wish you a lifetime of happiness.
Steve.

Sep. 24, 2009 | 8:48 AM Kenzu responds:

Thank you!

You can go clubbing with your girlfriend.
It's a very nice experience, especially because you can do almost anything with her.

Sep. 23, 2009 | 4:22 PM TheMexicanMuffinMan says:

Yeah, asian women are hot.

Sep. 23, 2009 | 6:59 PM Kenzu responds:

Yes they are!

Sep. 23, 2009 | 4:49 PM zrb says:

Congrats on the marriage man :)
You two look like a great couple !

To answer your questions:

1) I agree with you
2) Whenever I find someone I love
3) Yes

Sep. 24, 2009 | 8:48 AM Kenzu responds:

yeah, good!

Sep. 23, 2009 | 4:54 PM therealanimator says:

congrats thats all i have to say now get back to animating.

Sep. 24, 2009 | 8:48 AM Kenzu responds:

exams comming up unfortunately.

Sep. 23, 2009 | 5:13 PM Bug says:

Congratz! I hope you and your wife live long, happy lives!

Sep. 24, 2009 | 8:49 AM Kenzu responds:

I hope so too.

Sep. 23, 2009 | 5:16 PM Bug says:

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Sep. 24, 2009 | 8:49 AM Kenzu responds:

Was that russian?

Sep. 23, 2009 | 5:35 PM Ilynlor says:

congratulations with your marriage!

from the looks of it,you sure caught a lovely fish :D

but i'm gonna guess her personality rocks aswell huh? :D

and as to the questions....

i'll never marry :)

burried the only one that could've ever got me to marry her a long time ago,none other can compare :)

Sep. 23, 2009 | 6:59 PM Kenzu responds:

Oh my god, does it mean that the person you loved has died?

Sep. 23, 2009 | 5:47 PM Burner1 says:

Congratz dude!!!!!!!!:D

Sep. 23, 2009 | 6:58 PM Kenzu responds:

Thankz!

Sep. 23, 2009 | 6:13 PM Zeppelin562 says:

Dude lookin' good! Rockin the stallion tail... (That's what i call mine cause ponies aren't nearly as big, burly, and manly a stallions. ;) Congratulations man, she's cute! I bet she shags like a minx. Hope you guys stick together for the long run cause ya just look to damn good together!

Sep. 24, 2009 | 6:18 AM Kenzu responds:

I hope so too

Sep. 23, 2009 | 6:18 PM epickage says:

dude, congratulations, really

Sep. 24, 2009 | 8:49 AM Kenzu responds:

Thank you very much!

Sep. 23, 2009 | 6:23 PM walterwagner says:

Mazle Tov

Sep. 24, 2009 | 6:19 AM Kenzu responds:

Thanks!
(Had to look up what it means though)

Sep. 23, 2009 | 6:40 PM erick-jauregui says:

your wife is beautiful.congrats.You have my wishes and good luck on what ever comes at you too in the future.

Think positive.

Sep. 24, 2009 | 8:49 AM Kenzu responds:

I definitely will!

Sep. 23, 2009 | 7:56 PM Zeppelin562 says:

and im totally not gay

Sep. 24, 2009 | 6:20 AM Kenzu responds:

ok...

Sep. 24, 2009 | 7:22 AM Zeppelin562 says:

hehe i just thought i put out the wrong vibe. Didnt want you to get all excited and leave that lovely lady for me. ;)

Sep. 24, 2009 | 8:50 AM Kenzu responds:

LOL

Sep. 25, 2009 | 8:01 AM Exotoothpick says:

I must point out flaws in your reasons to getting married love. Especially considering the amount of arrogance you show to us 'improper people'.

You've stated yourself, everything stayed exactly the same. Why get married then? For ownership of your wife? It's the only valid reason I've seen you post. 'Fuck off, she's my wife'. The only benefits of marriage are and always will be psychological. Look back to when marriage entered the records, it was high ranking men inserting their dominance on the women they wanted to own. This is clearly the case with you.

Calling people 'proper people' for wanting marriage is unfair and uncalled for. I have friends who have been together since 14, and still together at 23. Why are they improper? Because they have a logical reason for not wanting to wed at a young age? They still love and care for each other, they have for 9 years which I'm betting is longer than you and your wife have. They don't need a record stating they -should- be together forever.

And last of all, the 99.99 compatibility statement.. Bullshit my friend. All couples think that when it's going good. Your 20s are meant to be the time you have fun, start a career, explore the world. In the grand scheme of things, the average person lives till 80. The reasonable age to settle down is 30 - 40. I mean sure, if it's right for you to do it at 22, great. But you have no right telling people that you -have- to do it and justifying that with pitiful and stupid reasons.

I would honestly place a bet saying you're going through a divorce at 25. This isn't meant to be cynical or anything, but you reek of immaturity and lack the wisdom and experience for a healthy relationship, and apparently base it round sex.. Yeah, wonderful basis for a marriage.

Sep. 27, 2009 | 12:27 PM Kenzu responds:

I am not saying what people should or should not do.

What I said was that I think people should marry before they become 30 years old and after they mature.

Not being married isn't a requirement to start a career.
I can explore the world together with my wife.

But what do you mean by exploring the world?
Do you mean traveling to different places, or do you mean to explore one self and find out what one truly wants?

Most of my relatives married before 25, I dont see a reason why people, who love each other and lived together don't dare to make the step of what is marriage.

If they want to stay together forever, why not marry?

Is it only the scare that they will divorce, or is there something else too?

Sep. 25, 2009 | 3:57 PM meztag says:

What do you think about this?
First of all Congrat's and good luck. Secondly, I hear the sounds of trumpets, and war drums as I read all of this, picturing you head banging to some sci-fi heavy metal. Your wife is beautiful, and u are a lucky bastard! No but really... good luck to the both of you
When are you planning to marry?
Maybe another 6-8 years: When I can afford to be married and have a found a girl that I love and she loves me...
Are you planning to marry at all?
Yes

Sep. 27, 2009 | 12:22 PM Kenzu responds:

Good to see that more people want to marry.

Sep. 27, 2009 | 10:41 PM SoulMaster71 says:

"It doesnt happen often that the father keeps the children. You must be a very good father."

My meaning must have been lost somewhere on the cultural boundary, I mean that I HOPE to have kids someday, not that I HAVE any. Maybe the poor grammar that I used is just an American thing, not used in the dialect taught in Europe.

Anyway, I'm pretty sure there's something I have to do before I find her. Now if I could just figure out what that something is!

Sep. 28, 2009 | 3:57 PM Kenzu responds:

Oh sorry. Seems I have misunderstood.

Obviously it would make no sense to marry someone you aren't completely happy with, afterall even if you like that person at the beginning, you won't like her that much after some years.

Therefore if you ever plan on marrying, you should marry someone you are very happy with, so that after years, when the routine kicks you will still be happy with hear, maybe not perfectly happy, but still quite happy.

Sep. 30, 2009 | 2:50 PM Masterzakk says:

Liek all marriages this will fall apart soon. Inevitably.
Anyways on the part where it's better sex with your wife. I'd say it'd get boring you'd start looking for 19 year old prostititues.

Oct. 4, 2009 | 7:49 AM Kenzu responds:

Not all mariages fall apart. From my and her relatives, not a single marriage fell apart.

If sex would ever get boring, why looking for prostitutes?
Afterall they offer nothing except sex!